they say "love is blind"
I say "rubbish"
there is nothing as clear sight as love,
it is the most clear sighted thing in the world.

what it means to love is to see,
so, how can you love that you don't even see?
how can you see when you're upset?
and how can you see if there is a strong emotion, positive or negative, coming in the way?

attachment is blind, because its stupid,
because it is based on a false belief,
and they call it love.

I'm in love with you, I love you,
what? you love me or you love yourself?

do you really know what "in love" means?
"in love" means I want you for me.
"I am in love with you" means I'm possessive over you.
"to be in love with you" means I want you for me, I'm not going to be happy without you, I emotionally depend on you, I can't be happy without you.

what? isn't that a drug? a disease?
our culture say "its the supreme virtue"
I say "its garbage"

you're blind when you're in love,
you don't see the other person,
you've projected a hopeful image onto that person and that is why you're in love,
hopeful, not more than just a hopeful image.

when you're not expecting anything from another person, you won't say you're in love.

oh my, you have lots to meditate on...

--inspired by demello---